I interviewed Willa Lopez on 10 February 2012 by telephone. She is a Mexican immigrant who is now 78 years old. She has lived a long life so far and she feels she has seen many things change while she has been alive. Willa Lopez was Born in Pueblo Yaqui, Sonora, Mexico in 1934.
Before she immigrated to the United States she first moved to Ciudad Obregon to try to make a life. She got married and had 3 children. One child died in infancy. She found herself in an abusive relationship and when an opportunity arose to visit the United Staes she did so with her female cousin. They visited a male cousin who was living in Los Angeles. So in 1966, she got her passport and then traveled to Los Angeles, CA. Los Angeles was so different from her little town in Mexico that she was over whelmed with all the excitement, she decided to stay and try to make a living in the U.S. her children were now 13 and 11 and she left them in the care of her parents. The first job she got when she arrived was a babysitting job for a family with 3 children ages 7, 5 and 3. Willa stated she didn't send much money home because she didn't make that much and the children were well taken care of by her parents. She was sure she could have gotten a job like babysitting in Mexico but she never worked after having children because her ex-husband was a lawyer.
Like in the article by Pannase, she too felt like she should work hard to bring her children to the United States but said the children chose to stay in Mexico to finish up their studies.
Willa eventually remarried and had 3 additional children. They lived in Los Angeles until they decided to move to the City of Puerto Penasco, Sonora, Mexico in 1976 with my husband and 3 children. This was mainly to escape the violance that had erupted in Los Angeles at the time. She never thought she would return to Mexico but did so for the family. They saty was not long though and the family moved from there in 1978 and headed to Tucson, AZ where the children graduated high school.
Willa said the immigration process was very quick for her. She was on her passport permission but then applied for her Green Card when she got married. It was all done within 6 months. She said it is much harder and much longer now.
During our stay in Arizona, She did get a divorce in 1985 while her children were in high school. Since She got divorced She had to get a job. Willa worked as a janitor at the University of Arizona because she was told her children would get a discount if thy went to college there.
"One of my children did attend the University of Arizona, which made it worth all the long hours I worked at night." After the children graduated from high school, she followed one of her children who was in the military service to their duty stations from 1994 to 2002. She was able to travel to Europe, Japan, Korea, Italy and then back to the U.S. In 2002, she decided to stop traveling and she moved in with her oldest daughter in Plano, Texas where she has been leaving since. "I have 4 of my 5 children near me and I also blessed that they take care of me" Willa said.
Willa stated in the end, "I came to the U.S. and just liked it. I didn't come to work because I was distressed in Mexico. I could see the advancements here in the U.S. compared to my little town in Pueblo Yaqui. I would have rather brought my children right away to the U.S. but they wanted to finish high school first so I did leave them to continue living with my parents."
I see this as a sacrifice just like the Filipino woman have done over time I the article. They did it for their children and you can't deny this is a huge sacrifice.